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One More Chance
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Posted by: Newsletter Editor 3/23/2007

The following is a true story of a man’s love for his father and his father’s heritage. It is the story of a man who realized the importance of honoring his father and embracing his heritage.  As time marches on, the generation of our fathers and grandfathers is fading into the past.  These patriarchs are not only legends of history, but are treasure chests of wisdom.  If we can properly value the treasure that the older generation has to offer, we can possibly transfer some of the wealth they have to give us – before it’s too late.  God commands us to honor our father and mother.  It is through this honor that we are blessed and protected by the wealth of wisdom they can impart.  Our modern culture tells us that the shortcomings, failures, and sin of our fathers are reason to dishonor, despise and reject them and the heritage they have to give us.  I believe that this is a satanic tactic to destroy individuals, families, churches and the Gospel.  The instruction to honor is not conditional, but simple and explicit.  Not only is it one of the Ten Commandments, but it is often repeated in the New Testament. My own first memories of aviation were the stories my dad told me of my grandfather’s flight training in World War II.  These stories instilled in me a love for flying and a realization that I too could fly.  Next month I will celebrate ten years since I earned my pilot’s license.  I thank the Lord for the tremendous blessing I have received from my father and grandfathers in so many similar ways.  It is also a grave reminder to me of the importance of my own faithfulness.  My children and grandchildren will look to me.  Will I be an example of a godly man who will inspire my posterity to greater heights of faith in Christ?

-David Cox


One More Chance

By David Malki


My earliest memories are of pointing to the sky, having detected the far-off drone of a piston engine. Dad had been a pilot since before I was born. He flew a pea-green Cessna 172 from Rialto Municipal/Miro Field in Southern California. I can remember with crystal clarity those lazy Saturday afternoons at the airport, helping him push back the big hangar doors and leaning my small weight against the airplane's struts as he pulled it into the sun.

I read him checklists, learning words like "aileron," "magnetos," and "pitot" that no one else in my first-grade class knew. I drew airplanes and helicopters all over every piece of paper I could find, proudly telling Dad that I was going to grow up to be a "helicopter designer." I went to the library, looked up the addresses of every aircraft manufacturer I could think of, and sent them packets of drawings. (Grumman was the only one that responded, with a very nice letter and some glossy 8-by-10-inch photos of fighters.)

But, as a teenager, I had "better" things to do than hang out at the airport. I turned down invitations to fly out for breakfast — that would require getting up too early on weekend mornings. Eventually, I graduated from high school and moved away for college, beginning to build my life in a new city. I saw Dad less and less frequently. He talked occasionally about flying out to visit me, but then he lost his medical and sold the plane. At 75 years of age, he was grounded.

Over the next few years his health deteriorated further. He lost weight, and his energy flagged. When I did see him, he often sat slumped in his chair in a defeated pose I'd never encountered before.

And then, one morning, I got the call that the ambulance had come in the middle of the night to take him away. I rushed to the hospital and met, for the first time, a thin, sad figure that I hardly recognized as my father — so different from the strong, robust figure of my childhood. I drove him home that day, driving as carefully as I could, and knew that he was weak when he never once bothered to comment on my driving!

That night I told my then-girlfriend (now my wife) about how much I regretted passing up the opportunity to fly more with Dad when I'd had the chance. I mentioned that in the back of my mind, I'd always thought that I'd become a pilot someday. I'd just never done anything about it.

A few weeks later, for Valentine's Day, she surprised me with a $49 introductory flight at a local fixed-base operation. I grinned like a chimp as I climbed into the school's Cherokee. When the Lycoming barked to life, it was as if a spark had jumped a gap in my heart — the love, vigor, and excitement of my childhood came rushing back.

As the instructor led me through some simple maneuvers, I realized that flying had to be part of my life again. The instructor complimented me on how comfortable I seemed in the sky and how sure my movements were — I told him that I'd done this before.

Before I left the airport that day, I bought a logbook and had the instructor sign the first line. I was working an evening shift at the time, so I worked flying lessons into my morning schedule. Within three months, I had my private pilot certificate and was as happy as I'd ever been.

But by now, Dad's condition had gotten worse. His energy was very low. I'd told Mom about the flying lessons, but I didn't tell Dad — I wanted it to be a surprise.

Dad still liked to go to the airport now and then to watch the airplanes and perhaps chat with some of the pilots. Mom told me about a fly-in breakfast that was coming up and said she would make sure he'd be there. When the day came, I took to the air, flying the one-hour cross-country to my hometown. As I taxied from the runway to transient parking, I found Mom leading Dad across the ramp toward me.

The first words out of his mouth were, "Why didn't you tell me?" I laughed and gave him a hug.

The next thing he said was a string of admonishments — "Always watch the weather. Don't spend too much money. Always be careful taxiing. Take the time to do a proper preflight." Once I heard his strict tone, I knew that the old Dad was back, if only for the day.

Mom coaxed him into the cockpit, and I gingerly steered the plane onto the same runway that was featured so heavily in my favorite childhood memories. With a roar the Cherokee pulled us into the air, and a trip around the pattern rushed by all too quickly. On final, I asked him if he wanted to go around again. Feeling the stress of the flight, he declined. I let the plane down gently, pulled off the runway, and taxied back to parking.

Mom and I helped him climb down the Cherokee's wing, and Mom asked him about the flight. "Sure, David's a good pilot," he said. Coming from him, this was high praise.

In the months that followed, he weakened further. I took any opportunity I could to visit him, even as his speech and breathing became labored. We discussed where I'd flown recently, and he told me stories of notable trips he'd taken. He continued to warn me about the hazards of not watching the weather, a lesson I've taken to heart.

Dad passed away about four months after the fly-in. My first flight ever had been as his passenger, and his last flight had been as mine. I continued to revisit the little Southern California airports that we'd been to together.

At Apple Valley, an airport in the desert northeast of Los Angeles, a restaurant wall is decorated with handwritten messages from 60 years' worth of pilots who've passed through. Names and dates fight for space on the long, painted brick expanse. I remembered this place. I wondered if I'd written anything there.

I spent 15 minutes searching the wall, trying to find my own name. Instead, I found Dad's — dated five years before I was born.

The ink had faded over the decades, and the name was partially covered by newer additions. I borrowed a marker from the waitress and inked over his signature, smiling as I recognized his familiar scrawl. I colored in his name and date, and then added my own beneath it. Mine was a little bit smaller, a little bit newer, a little bit sloppier — but it was there, it was right next to Dad's.

David Malki, AOPA 711545, is a film editor who has been flying for three years. He's accumulated 150 hours flying Cherokees and Cessna 206s.

This article was reprinted with permission from the Aircraft Owners and Pilots Association (AOPA).  To learn more about AOPA and flying, visit or stop by their headquarters in Frederick Maryland.

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Re: One More Chance    By Raoul on 5/7/2007
David M., this is so touching and wonderful! Thank you for sharing it!

Re: One More Chance    By Berlinda on 5/7/2007
David M, your mom sent me this link. I had no idea that you were now a pilot, and flying. Wow!! I truly enjoyed this article. It's good to remember the past and how your future is so truly wrapped into it. You chose a wise mate for yourself. Continued Blessings to you and your family

Re: One More Chance    By James D. Lyne on 8/22/2007
David Malki, I was your Dad's flight Instructor back in the late '70's when he was working on his instrument rating. I remember his 172 well; probably the best-equiped Skyhawk of its generation. He used to rent it to my girlfriend and I for about the price of gas. I was touched by your story, thanks.

Re: One More Chance    By Chuck Luettgerodt, Inland Aviation on 9/19/2007
David, I was a close friend of your Dad's, and sometimes his mechanic when he needed work done with a signature. One time, a bunch of us went the Reno Air races one year, and your Dad used up all of the water in Bob's trailer. Bob wasn't happy, but the rest of us got a good laugh when your Dad offered to fill up the tank using a one gallon milk jug. He and I would often talk cars and planes, and would often have lunch with a few of us here at L12. I saw your Mother today, and she gave me the web address about your story. Good job.

Re: One More Chance    By Ruth Malki on 1/5/2009

aunt Linden sent this to me. I cried reading it. Thank you.

Re: One More Chance    By Helen Leith on 1/13/2009
Hello darling David - this is your cousin Helen here - what a beautiful piece. Your father was the best - the very best. I remember years ago he took my brother James and me up in his plane (it must have been around 1978/9). We were only in our teens and had never been in such a small plane before - the views were lovely but it did make me feel queasy! I think your naughty Dad thought this was rather funny so he pretended to come in for a landing and then just took off for another big loopy ride around again! I wouldn't have missed it for anything! Lots of love to you both.

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